Infp 4w5 german 23f, looking strictly for friendship
Hello!
Guess its my turn to post something haha.
I more or less got myself this new reddit account to have a sort of fresh start again.
Here's some information about me :)
- infp 4w5 though i recently did the test again and i got enfp. But according to the functions i still consider myself an infp
- im a 23 years old woman from germany. I'd like to make friends from all over the world, no matter the mbti type! So if you're at least a bit curious feel free to dm me. Especially the lurkers here who dont post but read 👍😂. Im open for all kinds of people ^^
- i already have someone serious in rl so i dont want to potentially get anyones hopes up. Yet eventhough im looking for friendship i dont want to force them either. So lets just have a chat and figure it out as we go along.
- my native language is german but im also fluent in english and spanish. I was a year in spain after high school and enjoyed it very much 🤗. Currently im trying to learn italian bc i consider it one of the most beautiful languages. But i have a huugeee list of activities as well as languages id like to learn, such as russian, chinese, japanese, korean, french etc
- as for my personality and interests i feel lightly slighted that i basically fit the stereotype lmao.
=> I love to travel and with that i mean that i feel a constant strong pull to travel somewhere and try new things out. From places to ice cream flavour and each time a different meal in the same restaurant.
I developed a taste for it since i lived in spain and it never stopped.
=> i like typical "grandma hobbys" like knitting (its so relaxing!), reading (i have literally too many piles T_T) and cooking/baking (pinterest is my dear friend haha). Also im vegan if anyones curious.
=> but also more "nerdy hobbys" like anime, video games, especially visual novels and farming/dating sims, and more or less recently i got into tcg. Not good at that yet but i"ll improve!
=> personality wise i think its better that you find out for yourself but as a general guideline.... as you see im very expressive in a tumblr/pinterest girl/cutesy sort of way. I care deeply about living according to my values and becoming, or rather, working towards becoming my "ideal self". What exactly that contains? You can ask me and we can have a deep philosophical discussion on how far someone can change or smth skdkskkdls.
(- if anyone cares: sun cap, moon taurus, rising sag. Oh and btw im an agnostic. I know a bit about spiritual stuff like astrology and tarot but eventhough i feel the pull to dive into these things i dont truly believe in them. I want to be a more logical, sciency person. But whatever floats your boat!! :D)
What im looking for:
- i'm someone who values all kinds of friendship. Those that are mostly focused around a specific topic/activity, then others that are more like accquaintences. Ofc deep, longterm and meaningful friendships are wonderful as well yet i believe that we shouldnt force connections. Whatever happens grows over time. Preferably i care about meaningful friendships that last a lifetime but as many things change over time i think that just being a good part in someones life is great too.
- MUTUAL EFFORT! Cant yell it out loud enough! I dont want to be the only one carrying the connection. I'll try to put my best foot forward but i'll make sure to match energy. Yeah i've been disappointed by lacking friends too. Maybe we'll bond over that.
- age range from 18-30 years, gender and mbti type doesnt matter. Thats because id like to connect with people closer to my age.
- i suppose if i had an ideal friend it would be the kind of person that you have natural chemistry with. Someone that you can be yourself around and feel safe, have mutual trust with and perhaps there are natural differences that compliment each other.
I always liked people that are more different than me instead of similar. I want to grow, learn and try lots of things out. I feel like the sort of naive protagonist that ventures hopefully into a new adventure.
Or at least thats the kind of vibe i portray ^^'.
I admire and like enfjs and entjs if that paints a picture.
What i offer:
- a friendship thats based on mutual trust and honesty, a natural feeling of safety and acceptance and making you feel cared for.
- my funny self ;). Thats a trait im genuinely proud of 👍✨️
- fun activities to do/conversations to have. Or at the very least im trying to plan things and get to know you truly.
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Thanks for reading so far! At this point im not sure what to add haha, so maybe ill update a bit. Or thinking of it actually... that might be a bad idea ^^'. This post is long enough as it is.
Have a great week and hopefully each one of you (i mean the good ones >_>) will find what youre looking. Be it friendship, a relationship or anything else.
See ya in my dms!