Anyone else dealing with this?
It’s been almost two years since I left my narcissistic ex. I left when our daughter was 1.5. He was on drugs and was abusive so I was okay with raising her without him. After all this time of basically nothing from him and not caring to be in her life he decides he wants to come back into her life. I was really confused/upset because he’s made no attempts at therapy or even quitting his drug habit. Today he said he just wants to move on with his life and he wants me to basically sweep everything under the rug and it’s not a good look having a kid who isn’t in his life. I am really mad because he just wants to act like he didn’t abuse me for 7.5 years and made no efforts for our daughter since we’ve been gone. Does anyone have any experience with their narcissistic ex wanting to act like they didn’t abuse you for so long just for an act? I just feel like it’s not fair to be so evil then to just act like it all didn’t happen and go live a completely new life. I would love any advice on if anyone has been through something similar!