DMT: Cultural appropriation is often about context, not ownership of culture
The idea of cultural appropriation has become too focused on who is allowed to use certain cultural elements.
Cultures have always developed through sharing. Food, clothing, music, and traditions constantly move between societies and change along the way. Expecting people to avoid anything connected to another culture can create the idea that cultures are separate properties instead of something that evolves through interaction.
That does not mean every use of another culture is respectful. Using traditions as stereotypes, mocking their meaning, or taking credit and profit while ignoring the people who created them are legitimate concerns.
But I think the main issue is often not the act of borrowing itself. It is the intention, the power dynamic, and whether the original culture is being respected.
Calling every example of cultural exchange "appropriation" risks turning normal human interaction into something negative.
Maybe the better question is not who has permission to use a culture, but whether they understand and respect what they are using.