I got an ADR for proof of funds and I’m going to include an updated bank letter and bank statements and I’m wondering if the bank statements need to be signed or can I just use the electronically generated statements as is?
Ok so, what they said sucks but I have this thing where in the moment of something happening, I don’t realize the weight of it or it doesn’t really matter to me that much in the moment until I think and ruminate on it a bit.
When they said that to me it was kind of said in a joking tone and in the moment I was like whatever because regardless of what they say or wish, I’m still not gonna have kids. They were all men of-course. But after thinking on it for 2 days I’m realizing that it was really disrespectful and really such an insane thing to say to someone. I should’ve replied and said “I hope when you guys are ready to have kids, you find out you’re infertile and can’t have any” in the same joking tone they did. Instead I said “you guys are very negative and I don’t like it”.
I just wish I realize the gravity of things in the moment so I can reply accordingly instead of days later because generally what happens is, after I think about something, I end up bringing up the issue days later, only then expressing my discomfort or issues instead of in the moment.
Dinner: went out for dim sum with the girls
EDIT: Thank you all for your comments so far, they’ve been great and reaffirming. That’s not even the extend of what they said either. I told them I would consider getting my tubes tied and they responded with “I hope the procedure backfires and your tubes actually become “bigger” to make you more susceptible to pregnancy”. I’ll def take your advice because these comments were such a violation.
I can’t respond to your comments because I’m not yet approved, unfortunately🙁