u/PrestigiousWater5773

overheard a dude yelling at his dog and then heard the dog start whimpering so i was like fuck he’s probably hurting it. i went over and was super gentle about my tone and was like hey man i think the dog is hurting. he basically told me to fuck off and that’s how u train a dog. i said no that’s not they need positive reinforcement. it ended up escalating and us screaming at each other which i’m not proud of especially cus he’s probably just gonna take it out on the pup later. it just boils my blood when people hurt creatures!!!! like i get it life is hard we all slip up sometimes i know i’m not perfect but it’s no excuse for me or anyone else! but it really seemed like that was his dynamic with the dog i overheard him saying horrible shit for like 20mins.

i am feeling so overwhelmingly hurt right now by my best friend and partner. my partner had asked me a couple days ago if they could sleepover and then hangout all day today. it was getting later and later and i was calling and texting but no response. then i was like ok it’s fine maybe they’re far away and needed to sleep at someone else’s no biggie. but then again i’m getting no response today about our plans and then i get a short message - “hey baby i’m at our friends place” and that’s it. i think they quite literally forgot about our plans even though THEY were the one asking to hangout. i’m also sick right now and on antibiotics (so i’m not contagious at this point) and am in so much physical pain and nausea. i’ve taken care of them so much when they’ve been sick and so i was looking forward to hanging out and feeling tended to. they’re also logged into their insta on my phone because they had lost theirs recently. i went on it to try to reach them cus they weren’t responding but i see them talking to other ppl on it and so they’re obviously not prioritizing me. they’ve forgotten plans before and i’ve been like it’s ok i forget plans too from time to time. and they were super apologetic about it. but i just feel at my wits end. i’m so so so hurt. would rlly love any words of advice or comfort i feel so alone right now