u/Prestigious_beet

Our relationship had a lot of ups and downs over the years. We share an immense amount of love, but we are both very hardheaded, and our fights could be quite tense. Still, we were always able to talk things through in the end and continue building our life together. As immigrants, we spent ten years building each other's lives from the ground up. Seven years into our relationship, we got engaged and started trying to conceive.
When it didn’t happen naturally for a while, we decided to pursue IVF overseas due to the costs. After the first round failed, he was right there with me. He was devastated, felt terrible about everything I went through, and was my biggest support. Soon after, we proceeded with a second round. He wasn't entirely on board, but he let me choose, promising to help with everything—finances, paperwork, and whatever else was needed—even though he couldn't physically be there because he had to travel back home for his private business. That round failed as well.
Fast-forward to the third round this year. I went overseas by myself, asking him to join me for the transfer of our remaining frozen embryos. He said he would do his best to be here as the transfer date approached. However, when the time came, he told me he was going through too much business-wise and couldn't make it—though honestly, I don't believe that's true; I just think he ran out of emotional capacity to go through this process anymore.
Long story short, we broke up. He still wants me to proceed with the embryo transfer and has signed all the necessary legal paperwork, so from a logistical standpoint, I am good to go.
I have a hard time talking to my friends and family about all of this, so I wanted to vent here and hopefully get some insights and opinions. Ever since we broke up, he has tried to reach me multiple times, but I’ve refused to talk to him. The stress of our relationship is just too much to carry while I am actively preparing for a frozen embryo transfer.
What do you guys think?