I would appreciate advice for those who are just starting out
Hi everyone!I'm a 21-year-old woman and I've been interested in BDSM for quite some time now. Unfortunately, I've never been in a relationship with that dynamic because the men I've been with were more of a "vanilla" type. I realized that "vanilla" doesn't appeal to me and that I like the dynamic to continue in everyday life, not just in physical intimacy. I'm completely new to BDSM and I'm especially interested in learning more about D/s dynamics. I'm still in the stage of researching and trying to understand this world better, and I want to learn as much as I can before actually getting involved in a dynamic with someone.
I'd really appreciate hearing from people who have more experience with D/s. What are the things you think every beginner should know before getting into it? I want to experiment in the future with a trustworthy person who also wants a relationship.
Knowing myself, I know I'm a submissive and I'd appreciate advice from other, more experienced submissives 🙂