I have noticed a trend with boob size..
Similarly moon in cap or in hard aspect to Saturn can signify the opposite 🪐
Any thoughts? 💭
I’m looking for genuine advice from people who’ve dealt with high-conflict co-parenting or possible parental alienation because I’m mentally exhausted by this situation now.
I’ve had 50/50 court-ordered custody for years and I’ve always been a very involved father. My kids and I are extremely close. I structure my life around them and have sacrificed a lot financially and personally to remain present and active in their lives.
Lately though, issues have been escalating specifically with my daughter (9). The mother keeps handling transitions in a very passive way that gives my daughter the impression she can choose whether she comes with me or not depending on her emotions in the moment.
For example, during my parenting time my daughter went back inside briefly to get something. Then she refused to come back out. Instead of firmly facilitating the handover, her mother stood outside negotiating with her saying things like “just go for a few hours and see how you get on.”
I kept saying the handover just needed to be calmly reinforced and completed, but instead it turned into a prolonged emotional scene where my daughter believed she could override the arrangement.
My ex has also previously told my daughter she can “come back whenever she wants,” which my daughter has repeated to me directly. To me, that completely undermines boundaries and creates confusion.
Another thing that bothers me is the comments she makes in front of the children. I told her sometimes my 7-year-old son doesn’t want to transition either, but I still facilitate access properly. She laughed and said “sure he’s the boss of the house over there.” She’s also said things like “Sienna won’t be going to you in a few years anyway” directly in front of the kids during handovers.
Another time I was hugging and kissing my daughter after not seeing her for days and from the balcony she shouted down “what are you doing, kissing her like you kiss your girlfriend?” It was bizarre and honestly humiliating.
I genuinely don’t understand why someone would behave this way toward a father who is actively involved and trying to peacefully co-parent. I don’t badmouth her to the kids, I don’t interfere with her parenting time, and I facilitate access even when the children are emotional.
I’m trying to understand:
Is this considered parental alienation or emotionally manipulative behaviour?
How do you deal with someone who constantly undermines you indirectly and passively?
How do you protect your relationship with your child without escalating conflict constantly?
I’d appreciate genuine advice from anyone who’s been through something similar