Is there anyway to get the new wife know without him knowing its me?
My narc ex was a serial cheater on me and the girl after me. I tried warning her, but it only made it worse. Fast forward their engagement was off bc he got violent according to her social media. He reached out to me to try and crawl back but I was over him at that point, but he knew I was his safe space to land for so long that he unloaded in a 4 hour convo about cheating on her frequently from girls at a strip club. I cut off contact with him after that talk and occasionally would check his socials to see who else he was disappointing. We have mutual friends, and I know as of last July he wasn't with anyone, but the other day, was SHOCKED to see his IG profile pic was a wedding pic. Her Pinterest was full of "baby nursery" and post partum pins so I know he got her pregnant and they had a shotgun wedding (just like his parents did when the had him lol). This girl has been pregnant longer than she's known him not pregnant and he's dangerous but has a lot of charm. I want to tell her, but I think there is a restraining order on him from the ex-fiance after me, so he'd know it was me. I have her email and cell phone. I just hate seeing him get off the hook after all he did to the two of us and this poor unsuspecting woman has ZERO clue into the web she fell in to (who is also substance abuse counselor - he is an alcoholic! and a social worker). Anything I can do?