u/Pretty_Milk451

as it isnt available in my region (sold out), live in Portugal

Bom dia malta

Quero ler todos os possiveis livros que remontem à natureza humana pois eu mesmo gostava de fazer uma compilacao sobre tal.

Recomendam alguns livros que demonstrem como nos realmente somos, quer pelas nossas emocoes e defeitos ou qualidades fisicas, ou outra coisa qualquer...

Podem recomendar nao ficcao tambem pois muitos livros retratam coisas essenciais. E procuro livros niche os mais obvios já estao em minha mente. Desculpem o post estranho

I don't know if this has to do with me or if it could be related to the fact that I'm semi-autistic and tend to feel that many interactions and relationships aren't genuine. (The funny thing is, when I say this to a "normal" person, they usually look at me like I'm weird. But those who get it, get it.)

I don't follow every social convention either, but I also try not to do anything that makes other people uncomfortable. I like being honest and genuine. I know some people think I'm weird, but I'd rather be that than pretend to be someone I'm not.

I've had girls interested in me before, but I could never move things forward just because they liked me. If I don't feel a genuine connection, it doesn't make sense.

There was one girl I really liked (although she didn't like me back). She did things because she genuinely wanted to, not because it was what other people expected of her. She was intelligent, hardworking, earned what she achieved through her own effort, and had a strong personality. She felt authentic. And over time, everything she showed about herself matched the positive impression I had of her.

That's the kind of person I'd like to find. Of course, it's not enough for someone to be genuine. It's also important that we share compatible values, that she's intelligent, open-minded, and that we both have our lives reasonably on track.

I know these aren't the best references for real life, but characters like Amélie (Amélie) or Marianne (Normal People) capture more or less what I mean (obviously ignoring the fictional exaggerations). People who have a rich inner world, do things because they genuinely enjoy them, aren't constantly seeking validation, and come across as authentic.

I also feel like I have a kind of "pattern recognition" for this type of person (even though I know I can be wrong). There are people I meet who simply seem to have this combination of traits, while with others I feel that much of their personality is shaped by social expectations. This also applies to other things, although I know I'm often wrong because it's impossible to truly know what people are really like.

The problem is that people like this don't exactly advertise themselves. It's not something you discover in a five-minute conversation or through social media.

So... where do I find girls like this?

Wheter you do it as your hobby, or you have a goal in mind, how good do you feel like your writing is?

Because recently i´ve been reading Leo Tolstoi, "Alexandre Dumas" and Dostoyevksy, and now returning to my manuscripts I feel completely crushed by my basic mistakes

Anyways just want to understand how aware people here are or what they feel

Bem após ter ido à feira do livro com gente que conheci aqui no reddit, pergunto agora "e que tal ver um jogo da seleção com mais gente que tambem goste de futebol?"

Por isso convido-vos a ir ao terreiro ver o jogo dia 23

UZBEQUISTAO QUERO EU DIZER

Procuro alguem pra ir à feira do livro de Lisboa.

Antes que venham com cenas relaxem é num espaço publico e nao vejo mal nenhum em fazer cenas assim espontaneas no reddit é uma forma de conhecer malta no reddit. E quem saiba até pode ir um grupo fixe. Já agora tenho 22 anos e sou rapaz

I have once because the narrative was aparently right at the tip of my tongue. But it was because the text was poor in adjectives and descriptions, that dont come out so easily.

Have you tried doing this? If so, have you reached a point where it's easy enough to describe the story well before you start rewriting?

Boas.

Se calhar é pedir muito, mas sempre comprei as cadernetas do Mundial

Este ano vou tentar fazer de uma forma diferente. Vou tentar completá-la sem comprar nenhum cromo, pedindo apenas a pessoas se disponibilizariam cromos que tivessem a mais (eu pagaria os portes claro).

Visto que sou estudante tambem nao tenho a possibilidade de dar mais de 100 euros pra isto. Se corresse bem eu faria tambem um video no youtube sobre isto.

E claro se nao quiserem dar os cromos agora, pois podem querer trocá-los ou vendê-los, podia ser depois do mundial, quando isto acalmar.