u/Primary_Capital7875

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My parents misgender me all the time and I'm losing my sanity.

I'm a trans guy and I've been HRT for a year and half now.

The first time I came out to my parents, my mom made my coming out all about herself: she complained about how hard it is for her to go through something like this and that I should have told her sooner and ended up blaming me for never telling her anything.

After this they seemed to have forgotten my coming out so I came out to them again on Christmas, we had a big fight and they "forgot" it again so I had my mum talk to my very supportive psychiatrist, who reprimanded her for using my deadname and wrong pronouns. During the appointment she seemed understanding and said she was surprised that I was hurt by her actions. She said she "had no problem whatsoever with me being trans" and said that she will use my preferred name and pronouns from now on.

Well guess what...as we went back home she seemed to have forgotten it again. As of now she ends every sentence with my deadname.

I just feel hate and rage right now.

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