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Ex is 3 months pregnant.

Hello gents just looking for advice here. I’m 26. Me and my ex broke up in April and as she’s been looking for an apartment to move into (I’m on the lease and pay all the bills. She’s not on the lease) she finds out she’s pregnant and an ultra sound said she’s at 12 weeks. We broke up cause of some stuff that came up from the past also combined with her being insanely lazy and her life never being put together. I’m just trying to get advice on how being a single dad can be. Do I try to work it out with the mom? I feel like it’ll always be in the back of my mind that I’m only with her for the baby and romantically the feelings won’t be there. She also told me last night that she wants to get married before the baby gets here or she doesn’t want me involved. I don’t want to get married to her but I want to be involved with my child. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Primary_Version_4496 — 5 days ago