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A tip for anyone who needs it or needs to hear it.

Be straightforward and be clear if u won't talk to someone the next day, let them know

So if you know you’re leaving, say so.

If your feelings have changed, say so.

If you only wanted something temporary, say so.

If u dont plan on talking to someone again, say so.

You dont need to ghost. Just be direct and have the guts to do so.

Dont give other people hope, just because just answer if u dont plan on continue talking them. Let them know.

If u are unsure of yourself, let them know

Dont give mixed signals or confused them because if the person its aware and they know that you are hurting them, let them know that you are just playing with them and have the guts to do so then they will cut you off as they should for their own peace, let them know and say so

Dont waste someone's time because a lot of people dislike that

If u dont plan on talking or to continue the conversation, let the person know, say so

If u are unsure of yourself,your emotions let them know

If you dont plan on having a relationship/ friendship for a long-term say so

Dont give other people hope, just because just answer if u dont plan on continue talking them. Let them know.

Dont give other people hope if you dont plan to stay, say so.

If you dont plan on staying with someone on their good/ bad/ difficult moments, let them know and say so

So if you know you’re leaving, say so.

If your feelings have changed, say so.

If you only wanted something temporary, say so.

If u dont plan on talking to someone again, say so.

If you dont plan on having a relationship/ friendship for a long-term say so

Dont give other people hope, just because just answer if u dont plan on staying permanently, let them know and dont stay as a visitor in someone life, because a person life isn't supposed to be a hotel and u aren't supposed to have a room assigned for a temporary time, if you dont plan to stay permanently let them know and have the guts to do so.

It's not that hard to be direct and straightforward.

Remember everyone, when someone tells you that they are mature, dont believe them, more when you can notice that the person doesn't have emotional capacity/ lack accountability and is emotional unavailable and they dont know what they do wrong even if you tell them, you can leave those people out of your life, and yes you are allowed to leave instead of staying

This comes from someone who's direct and straightforward

So i wrote a poem about a person that I want and I haven't found yet

I will love if you worship me, if you are devoted to me, if you are obsessive with me, if you take care of me and protect me, if you have initiative and do things without me telling you I wonder when you will find me, when I will find you, when we will find each other, please find me whenever you are, please find me, find me i will want you to love me as I am, to take care of me and to love me as I am

I wonder

Would you be able to handle someone with so much intensity?

Would you be able to love me like I love?

Would you

Would you be able to do so?

Would you be able to love me

Would you

I hope that when you find me, you will feel like you will need to be devoted to me, to talk me every day, to comfort me when I need to be comforted, I hope that you take care of me, i hope that you gush over me, because i just wanna be weak for once and not strong, to low my guard down for once, please find me, i feel tired, please find me i just hope that you have all the traits that I need in a person.

I hope that you do, I hope that you exist, and I hope that we will find each other someday. I dont know when that will be, but someday.

Reuploading it

So i wrote a poem about a person that I want and I haven't found yet, but I know that they exist somewhere we just haven't found each other yet, but we will someday

I dont know if you exist, I hope that you do. I just want someone who has the traits that I need because it's very important for me that

I hope that you exist

I dont know where you are and how you look like, i dont know your name yet, but i hope that u exist and we can be together someday if we find each other, I hope that you stay that you keep what you said your actions and your words because I feel so exhausted of being there for everyone, I hope that that you exist and that that we can be together someday

Hope you can find me, or I can find you or we can find each other

I dont know if you exist, I hope that you do, because if you dont, it will make me sick because it hurts

I just want someone to love me and to accept me like i am without questioning the things that I do, and with understanding my boundaries without questioning and just listening without questioning nothing

I hope that you exist and that we can be together someday, even when i didn't find you, or you didn't find me yet, because we haven't found each other yet

I really hope you exist even if I dont know if you exist. I hope you do, tho.

It makes me feel exhausted that the only thing that I want its to be loved, to feel that its mutual, that we both will do effort to work on it, even if you didn't find me yet, I didn't find you yet, we didn't find each other tho, but I hope that we will someday i dont know when that will be, but hope that we will find each other

I hope that you exist even if we haven't found each other yet

It's so exhausting to feel so deeply, to love so intensively

I hope that when we find each other, you will feel the same way that I do because i only will want you to feel the same way that I love so deeply that it hurts physically, I feel everything so intensively that it hurts

I will want us to be together, to care for each other, to love each other, for you to be obsessed with me, for you to be gentle with me and to accept me like I am , i will want you to be obssesive with me the same way that I love, to talk me every day, for you to notice when I feel happy, when I feel sad etc etc for you to notice and to remember every detail of me it would be nice

I dont know if you exist

I hope that you exist even if we haven't found each other yet

I hope that you exist a part of me hopes that you exist and that we can find each other

I will want us to be together, to take care of each for you to love me the same way that i do, because it really hurts to love so deeply like i do, I also deserve to be loved, to be taken care of me, to feel safe, I dont know if you exist, wherever you are i hope that you exist and that we can find each other someday

I hope that you exist and that we can find each other someday, and that's a hope that i have

So i wrote a poem about a person that I want and I haven't found yet, but I know that they exist somewhere we just haven't found each other yet, but we will someday

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I dont know if you exist, I hope that you do. I just want someone who has the traits that I need because it's very important for me that

I hope that you exist

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I dont know where you are and how you look like, i dont know your name yet, but i hope that u exist and we can be together someday if we find each other, I hope that you stay that you keep what you said your actions and your words because I feel so exhausted of being there for everyone, I hope that that you exist and that that we can be together someday

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Hope you can find me, or I can find you or we can find each other

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I dont know if you exist, I hope that you do, because if you dont, it will make me sick because it hurts

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I just want someone to love me and to accept me like i am without questioning the things that I do, and with understanding my boundaries without questioning and just listening without questioning nothing

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I hope that you exist and that we can be together someday, even when i didn't find you, or you didn't find me yet, because we haven't found each other yet

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I really hope you exist even if I dont know if you exist. I hope you do, tho.

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It makes me feel exhausted that the only thing that I want its to be loved, to feel that its mutual, that we both will do effort to work on it, even if you didn't find me yet, I didn't find you yet, we didn't find each other tho, but I hope that we will someday i dont know when that will be, but hope that we will find each other

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I hope that you exist even if we haven't found each other yet

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It's so exhausting to feel so deeply, to love so intensively

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I hope that when we find each other, you will feel the same way that I do because i only will want you to feel the same way that I love so deeply that it hurts physically, I feel everything so intensively that it hurts

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I will want us to be together, to care for each other, to love each other, for you to be obsessed with me, for you to be gentle with me and to accept me like I am , i will want you to be obssesive with me the same way that I love, to talk me every day, for you to notice when I feel happy, when I feel sad etc etc for you to notice and to remember every detail of me it would be nice

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I dont know if you exist

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I hope that you exist even if we haven't found each other yet

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I hope that you exist a part of me hopes that you exist and that we can find each other

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I will want us to be together, to take care of each for you to love me the same way that i do, because it really hurts to love so deeply like i do, I also deserve to be loved, to be taken care of me, to feel safe, I dont know if you exist, wherever you are i hope that you exist and that we can find each other someday

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I hope that you exist and that we can find each other someday, and that's a hope that i have