r/Obsessive_Love

Is there really people obsessive here or just posting for karma 🧐 contribution points, I hav doubt. And if there's real people obsessive personality, why can't i seem to find anyone like that, I haven't met anyone like that yett.

Edit: Lol so many getting rage baited, not even understanding my question, lol funny people 👁️👁️, read the question properly, i didnt mean that i didnt find anyone like that for me, I meant in general, i haven't found people like that. And why so many getting rage bait easily 😂😂.

What is it when a persons thoughts basically consume you? You think of them every hour, every minute, every second of every day. When you want nothing more than to be around them.

I've never felt this way before, ever. I don't know what it is you know. I thought it would pass, it always usually does. But not this time apparently.

I think its marvelous the fact that many types of love in a obssesive way exists.

Personally, I'm more the type to shape myself to fulfill the needs of my partner(even though having certain boundaries). But I've seen here some people that are more aggresive about their love, others are possessive and etc...

I'm curious to know more of our kind.

Let's share our love types!

For those who still read stories.

I respect you so much. You are so much brave than me. I have stopped finishing books. Cause it began to hurt with end of every story it felt like a piece of me died. 

A piece of me was left behind in time.

I still want to meet new people but I don't want to let go the people I met once. Cause nobody knows how life is what if it becomes cruel to them , what if there's nobody with them. What if they are feeling what I am feeling right now? It would hurt. It would hurt so much. I just want to be with them.

But life dosen't work that way. 

I feel in love with two people.

And one of them was a character. I can't say an imaginary character cause they are not characters are pieces writer. They are real, probably not in this world, probably in another. But they are real.

And the second person I fell for is too real. She seems like a dream. I know I can't have her. Fate is some twisted thing. It’s cruel in a way but seems kind. Depends on how you look at it. 

I know people usually won't read this. As it is just random trail of thoughts. 

But if you read. I will tell you I don't know if there is some destined to you or not. I don't know if he/ she would be kind enough to take care of you. I don't know if you will ever find someone for yourself.

But losing hope is not something you can do. I know it hurts when you are in search of love and sometimes it isn't even worth the effort. But please don't lose hope. 

I don't know what hope is but what I know is you shouldn't lose it.

I heavily wish for someone extremely obsessed with and in love with me and stalks me everywhere and is obsessed with me to the point that they cannot spend a single day without looking at me or talking to me or thinking of me . I wish someone begs for my attention, iwish they never ever lose interest in me I wish to be the first priority in someone's life I really really want someone who worships the ground i walk on. Someone who's possessive and would never cheat never be disloyal and would always be there for me I really really want them extremely obsessed with me , the only person they will only have interest in should be me , the only person who they talk to , stalk , wish for , have their first priority as should be me

So, I have posted here before, at least I think I have. Everybody seems to be looking for exactly what I am looking for, so why is it so hard to find for me?

I’m looking for that all consuming, fire, inferno love, the kind that consumes literally everything, and anyone, in its path, including the two people that love each other more than anything.

I’m looking for that kind of obsession, to where you look at each other, and you just know that you’re that persons, and they’re yours.

The phrase, mine, always mine.

I want someone that wants to be as consumed with me as I am with them, someone that loves and cherishes and cares for me as deeply as I do them, 100% monogamous, never needing to look for anyone else, because you know that that person that you found, sees you, and you see them, and they’re so uniquely special, that nobody could ever take their place.

Someone that doesn’t look at you like you’re a freak or a weirdo, by wanting to be completely enveloped by them, 24/7.

Someone who loves being cuddled, who loves touch, who loves affection, who craves intimacy.

No, I’m not saying that people can’t have jobs, I get it, but some jobs actually allow their partners to be present, somebody else made a post about this earlier, and I was like that would be totally awesome.

But even if not, at least have that partner be missing you the whole entire time that they are gone working. And be able to show exactly how much they miss you when they get home.

Someone that wants to have a consistency of life, totally infatuated and immersed in the other person, so that all they want for that person, is their happiness and their love.

I love, so intense and so hard, I am an older woman, but I don’t feel like it, and I don’t look like it. I still feel and look like I’m in my 20s, I’m 43, but everybody is shocked every time that they ask me how old I am.

Not saying I’m immature, but I really do believe that age is literally just a number, and you are how old that you let yourself feel, and I’m so full of life and childlike wonder, I’m so adventurous, I love doing reckless and dangerous things, like going over 100 mph on a sports bike in the dark when I live out in a place where there’s deer everywhere, I know it’s stupid, but that kind of stuff gives me a rush.

I love the dark and edgy and moody shit in life, I love people that are like that too.

But everybody just acts like I’m crazy.

Everybody just looks at me like I’m insane for wanting these things.

Is there really not anyone out there for me?

I’m also witch, that turns people off too, tremendously usually.

It’s not like I sit there and cast spells every day, I mean I have before, and I know how to do them, but that doesn’t make me a terrible or horrible or a bad person.

Why can’t I find my dark prince? Where is he?

I just wish I could find a guy who could be mutually crazy and obsessed about me as I am about him. I smh always end up being the one getting hurt

I feel like people say this but in reality they wouldn’t

I truly mean it. I want to be with them all day everyday. I don’t want a life outside of them, we have one joint life. We are one. We do everything together. All my interests/hobbies/passions include them. We only hang out with friends together. I would even want to work with them so we could even be together then. If you invite me to an event they have to also be invited. Everyone understands to we are a package deal for everything. My “alone time” even includes them, because we are one. We can just sit in silence together and feel each other’s presence.

There is genuinely nothing we would want to do without each other.

Ugh I just want to basically live inside each other’s skin.

I talked with this guy a while ago who was first seemly obsessed with me. Later on he told me bout this imaginery girlfriend, his ideals technically.

Everything I did was not good enough, even if I did meet his standards he put the bar higher for me to reach. He would secretely compare me to his imaginery girlfriend, technically an exact clone of himself just genderbend lol.

Now I don't want to offend anyone but I cannot comprehend talking to a person or atleast getting to know someone just to hold on something that only exist in your own... reality.

I tried to help him be better, face reality with me but y'know these people only listen to themselves so ofcourse I get discarded but it happens.

I always think it's funny how people talk about this deep loneliness yet only can resonate or feel "understood" when they project their own experience on someone else. It truly doesn't matter if you understand their feelings or thoughts. Aslong you don't suffer right infront of them they will never truly see you. Only their own pain.

ANYWAYS IM YAPPING, my question is if any of you guys have an imaginery partner and if it also limits you from connecting or even building a relationship with others?

I truly wanna understand if I could have done anything better but I do know the hard truth is that they would never love me for me anyways.

I want to adore you. Absorb you. Keep you. Protect you. Own you. Love you. Drown you in affection. Praise you. I want to mark you with my scent. To hold you tight and close so that we may merge souls. I want to cherish every beautiful smile you have. To feel the joy in every laugh you make. Be the song that I can dance to forever. The vessel for my love, so that my affection can have a home. No more fitting an ocean into a teacup. I will never let you go.

I don't do relationships I don't get crushes I've never in my life wanted someone so bad I'm genuinely losing it... it felt so wrong to do but I couldn't stop myself his scent is better than any drug...!!! It's so over!!!!