u/Prior-Key9090

My piercings are three to four months old, I couldn’t change the jewelry until 2-3 weeks ago, one of them at least, before bed I’ve found out that the one I changed fell off (just the top part) the bar is still intact, but then, the bar is stuck inside the hole, I can’t pull it out and it hurts when I do, it’s really really stuck to the point when I try to pull it out it pulls the entire cartilage with it, and still won’t come out. Any tips on how to get it out? Or what might’ve happened?

(It’s currently swollen in the picture because I tried pulling it out multiple times before realizing it’s stuck)