u/Prior-Raccoon7688

23,female

I have never dated anyone in my teens year and when I was in my second year of college I started dating on someone's suggestion from that day my life has been a little messy. I have dated 3,4 guys till now and no one was really interested which I always got to know later. So the 4th guy which I am still talking to I'm not sure what I suppose to do with him. He doesn't express much and has a disguised personality. As he says he is finding himself he had few traumas in life which I don't deny because I have also gone through these things. But he is very inconsistent with me like we talk for a month and we both disappear for the next one month it's been a year like this. And why I am not dating anyone else or also not excluding him is that I am focusing on career right now.. but I know I need to take a step later so just in that case I'm writing.

Maybe dating life is not for everyone and honestly I also don't believe in it I am afraid to fight for anyone and what if the things turned out to be bad either way I am a hopeless romantic.