I wanted travel destination suggestions for NE India or South India for December 2026. Do you all have an algorithm to choose where you want to go?
I am a beach person but also enjoy slow travel, heritage, forts and storytelling. I come from Central India and can only have 5 to 7 days in total because of my job, I want to make it worth it. Please guide
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Should I watch the English or the Hindi version?
Will Indore get IMAX screens anytime soon?
In short context - I decided to not reconcile after catching my husband's last affair. My walkout was May 2025.
Since then I have been taking care of the kids, and living separate from my husband. A lot of stuff on the lines of DARVO has already happened and he has also inflicted violence on himself to prove the point he was making about how hurt he truly is.
So yesterday, I got to chat with Xerc who is loosely associated with WH's company (they operate virtually, and meet physically in the retreat). Xerc attended the company's annual retreat. One particular evening, Xerc had moved away from the banquet hall to receive a call, and saw my spouse with the Chief of HR walking towards where everyone was partying. The thing is that Xerc stated that while they did not look lovey-dovey they walked too close and intimately and both immediately jumped apart when they made eye contact with Xerc.
Xerc returned to the party and next morning everyone dispersed to their respective cities.
This retreat happened in December 2025 which was months after I left the home!!
And as far as the HR lady is concerned, actually I had suspected her to the be original AP when I sniffed out the idea that maybe my husband was at it again. She herself is married a husband and two lovely daughters. Later, I had discovered the actual AP (also a co-worker), and it was over that beyotch that the confrontation had happened.
To be very honest, I really don't buy any of the endearments he sent me for sometime after I walked away. I know he cannot be trusted. His public persona is very reverse of what I know about him. The few people who know about what has happened are stunned at the realization.
I often silently wonder if he was having se.x now that I am gone. My rational mind says that he would not be, and my rational brain-two rolls its eyes and says if I am kidding myself? We never had a dead bedroom this last time he cheated, and he had found new reasons to stray - including me not making his favourite okra.
I have been very fierce and quiet, slowly getting up from the floor, and have not deviated from my conviction that while inertia is tempting, I would just set myself up for a lifetime of self-doubt and narcissistic abuse if I reconciled. My children would absorb how good their father is, because I never let them on to what I was experiencing as his wife. I have a smiling face and they never suspected.
So my yucky mind among the 200 things I munch on, is now wondering how celibacy is forced upon me. But when Xerc told me the small incident, that chat stream opened in my brain again - were they doing something? Hugging? Kissing? Something else that they did? Why did they get so uncomfortable being noticed together?
What were they doing?
And I realized that I was still affected by his actions and behaviour. It hit me that I still cared for what he did. I still craved for him to just constantly apologize and feel my void.
I am so important, don't you see?
And then the feeling of being a discarded-but-not-abandoned thing washed over me.