the bar for men is so low and it's only going lower
Exactly what the title says. I feel like every day I see more and more posts online about women applauding their male partners for what would be considered either common decency or bare minimum in any other situation. I also experience this with my friends who date men. They'll tell me how happy and grateful they are to have a fantastic partner and when they elaborate it's always something simple like:
"He listens and remembers the things I say."
"He asks how my day has been."
"He cooked for me and cleaned the dishes after."
"He tidied up around the house without me asking."
"He responds to my texts."
"He gets to my place at the time he said he'd be here."
"He saved half of the takeout for me to have tomorrow."
not to mention the crazier ones
"I was tired and didn't want to have s*x and he didn't pressure me."
"He actually makes me finish."
"We were cuddling and he didn't try and turn it into more."
They have gotten to the point where anything that's above having to emotionally and generally raise their male partner is worthy of praise.
Like yes these are good things, but they are all just common decency.