u/Prize-Presence-2169

They’re causing the “BPD stigma” by themselves online

I’m not saying every content creator is bad or that every BPD person is bad, but most of the stuff online about BPD is insane. I mean posts like “we can’t be abusive because we were abused as children” or “the abuse is not intenational so it’s not really abuse.” So by this logic, if i’ll go to the store drunk and steal something, it’s not a theft because i was drunk and not self-aware? Or the posts like “if your partner with BPD is splitting on you, it means you’re a bad partner” or their never ending shitting on people who dared to speak about how they were abused by a pwbpd. Do they really think we don’t deserve to talk about how we were abused? I almost ended up in mental hospital or almost hurt myself. When I was in the relationship, I kept watching those videos to understand my partner better and it just got much worse. They’re not really helping anyone and especially not themseleves. They keep each other down and in a miserable circle without any way out.

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u/Prize-Presence-2169 — 4 hours ago