Do teachers like students who are friends with them?
Hi! I'm a sophomore in hs and I'm getting worried because all of my friends are so close with their teachers when there are really only 2 teachers I feel close with (my history and english teachers)
*sorry this is so long lol!*
general question to both students (ur perspective on how to get close or like how you feel about this) and teachers
honestly have no clue what to title this so sorry if its misleading my real questions is more like "do teachers like people who are friendly with them (as in talking about their life and joking) more than others"
I feel like I'm a pretty shy/unsocial person in general and its really tough for me to talk to people older than me because I feel like I'm constantly bowing my head or I'll like say something wrong. Don't get me wrong I love my teachers but everyone I see around me is almost like friends with them. I want to be close with my teachers. I have good grades, i pay attention, raise my hand during class but I know you probably need more than that to get a good letter of rec or even just a good relationship and I have no idea what to talk to them about.
My friends talk to our teachers all the time about stuff like movies and stuff but I honestly just stand there like that one standing man emoji. I genuinely appreciate my teachers but sometimes it feels like a parsasocial relationship except they arent fictional characters and I talk to them on a biweekly basis.
I genuinely want to be able to talk to my teachers but I'm such an awkward person, this is the case especially for my newspaper adviser. I really want to major in journalism or bioengineering but both my biology and newspaper teachers don't really talk to me. My newspaper adviser is close to everyone in my class but me and like 5 other people; they have inside jokes etc. I have no idea what to do because shes my adviser again next year and she already knows I'm pretty shy so I don't think she wants to make the effort to talk to me especially since everyone else in my class is so social