u/Professional_Bad7552

He’s so back and forth. Now he’s saying he might go back home to Colorado for a couple of weeks. To give the cats space and take a break.

Why hasn’t he been getting on tik tok as much lately?

On mm. Just got pulled over. Got two tickets. One for speeding and one for no registration on the trailer! 350 dollars.

What’s with him and freshly? Did they hate each other at one point? Trying to understand their relationship. 🤣

I’m really struggling with a breakup and I don’t know how to move forward…..

My ex-girlfriend and I were together long enough that I became deeply attached not only to her, but to her son too. I helped raise him, loved him like my own, and built my whole future around them. Then everything just… disappeared

It’s been almost two months since we split, and I still feel stuck in grief. Some days I’m okay, and other days I feel like I lost my entire family overnight. Mother’s Day especially hit me hard because I spent so long feeling like I was becoming a mom, only to have that role ripped away again.

What makes it harder is the mixed signals. Sometimes she talks to me normally in person, sometimes she ignores me completely, and I keep overthinking every interaction wondering if she misses me too.

I know breakups are part of life, but this feels deeper than just losing a relationship. It feels like losing a home, a child, and the version of my future I believed in.

Has anyone else in the lesbian community gone through this kind of loss after becoming attached to a partner’s child? How did you survive it without completely shutting down emotionally?