Wife tore ACL, anything we can do to recoup some of what we spent?

Wife and I purchased the ikon base pass for next season. She had a fall at the end of last season that we didn’t learn was an ACL tear till she got an mri this summer (she skied another 5 ish days after the injury without realizing). Surgery is coming up in a few weeks, so she won’t be skiing this winter.

I thought it was no big deal and we could just defer her pass but alas… they got rid of that option this year.

We would love to cancel, defer, or “sell” the pass to someone else and transfer ownership but it seems none of those options exist.

Is there anything we can do? Some option I’m missing? Tips for how to get value out of an ikon pass for someone who won’t ski at all?

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u/Proffeshional — 11 days ago

Crazy to try and live off 45k dkk with children?

Hi all,

My wife and I currently live in the US, and we are looking for places to move so I can complete a PhD.

I am in communication with some faculty at DTU which is very compelling academically. I expect my salary would be about 38k dkk based on the scales I’ve seen.

I would also get a $1100 USD (~7k dkk) monthly living stipend from my past US military service. This is tax free if attending a US university, but I am not sure if it would still be tax free in Denmark.

So that puts me at 45k DKK monthly salary before tax.

My wife and I intend to start a family shortly after starting my PhD, so she is choosing to not work during this period.

Is that enough to reasonably support a modest lifestyle for myself, a stay at home spouse, and 1-2 future children?

It seems I can find modest 3 room living accommodations near ish to DTU for 15k dkk, which “seems” like it leaves enough leftover for a modest lifestyle.

Is this doable?

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u/Proffeshional — 19 days ago

PhD in Europe for early career engineer?

I'm a mechanical research engineer at a U.S. national lab working on opto-mechanical design and R&D. By the time I'd start a PhD, I'll have around five years of experience and an M.S.

I've always liked the idea of doing a PhD. The chance to really dive into one technical problem for a few years instead of constantly chasing changing priorities sounds awesome to me. For a long time I figured it just wasn't in the cards because I couldn't justify living on a typical grad student stipend.

Recently I found out that some European universities, especially DTU in Copenhagen, hire PhD students as employees. The pay seems pretty reasonable relative to the cost of living, and from everything I've read, the work-life balance also seems a lot healthier than many U.S. PhD programs. I've found a few professors doing research that's closely related to what I already work on and could see myself really enjoying.

Specifically, I have DTU in Copenhagen, NTNU in Trondheim, KTH in Stockholm, TU Eindhoven, and Upsalla on my list. These schools were selected based on perceived WLB, perceived pay relative to cost of living, and interest in living in those locations. I have some semblance of what to expect culturally due to spending a lot of time with Swedes for work, but I recognize it's a small sample size, and Swedes ≠ Norwegians ≠ Danes ≠ Dutch and so on.

I also lived in Germany for a few years as a kid, and I've always wanted to go back. The idea of spending 3–4 years there with my spouse, and starting our family there, sounds like a really unique opportunity.

Long term, I want to stay in research but eventually move into technical leadership. I'd plan to come back to the U.S. after finishing the PhD.

The catch is that I'd be around 28, married, and we'd probably be looking to have our first kid during the PhD. The alternative is a healthy U.S. salary, and putting roots down where we want to be long term.

One thing I'm struggling with is that I'm not really expecting the PhD to unlock a bunch of career opportunities that I'd otherwise never have. I already work in research, and I expect I could continue down that path without one.

The draw for me is more personal than anything else: getting to spend a few years immersed in my research, living in Europe again, experiencing academia, and doing all of that without taking the kind of financial hit that most U.S. PhD programs would require. If anything, I suspect I'd come back with experiences that would make me at least as competitive as if I'd stayed in industry.

Is that actually a good enough reason to do a PhD? Or will I end up regretting stepping away from industry?

NOTE: I polished up the post with AI, but the base draft was written by yours truly.... sue me.

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u/Proffeshional — 1 month ago

Wife and I doubled up on Mahi for our anniversary

First time fishing saltwater. Hired a guide in Cabo to chase rooster fish. Didn’t spot any roosters, but managed to double up on mahi, which is a *fantastic* consolation prize.

u/Proffeshional — 2 months ago
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Crazy cyclical noise coming from transmission tunnel?

Hi folks! I recently had my e36 M3 manual swapped by as local shop. Well it turns out, they did not do a very good job, and I am chasing my tail trying to figure out what all is wrong with it.

One issue I am having is this crazy cyclical noise you can hear in the video. It sounds like it is coming from the transmission tunnel, right by the shifter, but hard to say. The frequency changes with wheel speed, not engine speed, so it seems it is driveline related. It is independent of the gear I am in. The sound usually goes away when I slow down to below ~15mph, and starts up suddenly at ~30-40mph, though it's not consistent.

I just rebuilt the entire shifter assembly, and confirmed there is nothing contacting the driveshaft (at least while parked), and confirmed the whole assembly was put together correctly. However, the issue still persists. The reverse light switch wire was previously dangling loose in the transmission tunnel so I thought that might be it, but I made sure it is secured when re-assembling.

The mechanic that did the work thought the issue was the flex disc (guibo) contacting the selector rod, but I confirmed that is not the case in any gear.

Thought?

Other information:

  • Used Turner DSSR, Garagistic shift selector joint, dinar short shifter, and everything else in the shifter assembly is stock.
  • driveline is stock
  • ZF 320z transmission was supposedly "rebuilt" before it was installed. There seems to be a detention issue though (I think the mechanic swapped the 5th and reverse detents) so I don't know how much I trust this "rebuild."
    • Note: the shifter feels "floppy" when I push over to 5th until I hit a wall. That wall is really challenging to push through, but I can push through it to get into 5th. Reverse feels to light. There is slop in the shifter to the right in every gear. I confirmed this slop is not in the shifter assembly by directly checking the shift selector rod.
  • Driveshaft doesn't seem to want to telescope. I admit I didn't force it much, but it definitely doesn't move easily.
u/Proffeshional — 2 months ago

Hi all! I have been waiting for a buy a battery, get a free tool deal to appear for either Bauer or Hercules to start my power tool collection. With the deals on both brands in the upcoming parking lot sale, I am torn on which way to go.

I am looking at getting an electric ratchet, and a 1/2 inch drive impact gun to start. I was leaning Hercules until I saw that Hercules has a split between 12v and 20v tools, meaning I will need two *different* batteries to cover both tools. This makes me lean Bauer so I can just use Bauer 20v batteries for everything I buy.

I have a few Bauer corded tools already, with mixed feelings. I have the corded orbital palm sander, detail sander, and 5 gal shop vac. The shop vac is kinda terrible, and the sanders are "fine." So I don't have the best impression of Bauer, but they have all been good enough.

So, is Hercules worth having multiple types of batteries, or is Bauer good enough for a typical amateur automotive mechanic like myself?

Notes:

- I already own a Dewalt 20v drill and impact for home repair stuff. Don't want to go full dealt though due to costs.

- Not sure what other tools I will be interested in long term, but future expansion is in my mind as well.

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u/Proffeshional — 4 months ago