u/ProofFun6211

Okay so I am having a crisis where I dont hate my parents but i dont like my parents either, but I hate what they do and sometimes I love them as well

I love my parents because they keep doing sweet things for me and they sacrifice a lot for me, for example they let me choose where I wanna go for dinner even tho they want something else, they let me go out with my friends, they dont scream at me much and as an Indian teenager this will come as a surprise but they dont slap me or abuse me either and j know that's bare minimum but I just have this cool bond with my parents that most kids dont

Then there are the times I dont like them at all but I get where they're coming from j mean I am a growing teenager I am going to have hormones and stuff and I am going to like boys, there was this guy who was like a year or 2 older than me and we made out quite a lot and we kinda flirted on texts and my parents got super pissed they texted him to back off and honestly as an Indian parent I get that but j just really want you live my life a little bit. I am going to be honest I am not a person who believes in true love so I just wanted to feel like what it was to date and to be in a relationship and to kiss a guy. The first guy I made out with was a very close friend of mine which was why I was okay with him being my first kiss he would never ever break my heart so we had the whole fwb thing and my parents found out and they were livid, it's been a year now and me and my ex fwb now are still talking.

Further on they keep on telling me to do these little things they could very much EASILY do like if I am sitting in the living room and my mom is in her room then she'll call me just to tell me to keep her breakfast plate or her tea cup in the kitchen. And she will do this a 100 times in a day. Then on top of that when I say no to ONE thing just ONE THING she'll make a huge deal out of it by saying you never do anything for me and stuff and it pisses me off soooo much like bitch what the fuck.

Then there is the whole you dont study thing. They're like after me sitting on my head telling me to study I am in high school for Christ's sake I am 100% sure i can manage my studying and can WORRY about it myself, it gets maddening after a certain point of time.

My dad is even more annoying everytime we are alone he will talk about the things j will never understand and how immature I am and will list out all my bad qualities, he btw will never help me improve just tell me that he will help me and forget about that the next day and when I tell him about it he says he is busy. When j tell him about why I have these problems or try to defend myself he calls it illogical ways I am using just to defend my argument and honestly it pisses me the fuck off.

But at the end of the day I dont hate them maybe because they make me happy too. They buy me what I want, they love me a lot and I get that they care about me as well and they're doing this cause they care about me but it doesn't stop my heart from being soo mad and disappointed even though j understand their view.

So, a few days ago I was talking to a friend of mine about shit load of crap in the democracy of both USA and India and maybe some other countries(haven't read about them yet) and I started searching deeper into this cause I mean let's be honest this whole democracy is bullshit and in india it's only working out for the rich hindu assholes.

I mean come the fuck on we like in 2026 and we're still dealing with inequality and corruption like this ?! I am sure yhe fact that modi was a chaiwala has gotten around quite a bit and sure it looks like a great success story "from chaiwala to prime minister" but how could the people who voted for him be any more stupid!? How can you trust a chaiwala who has not even gotten a single degree to lead a country which requires various factors such as economy,resources,health care etc.

He has no knowledge so how can he be the leader when he himself doesn't know shit. Would you trust a doctor with your health if you knew he was a chaiwala? No you can't. Then how tf can you trust one to lead your country and make sure it prospers. I am not being biased that all chaiwalas are uneducated nor am I shaming uneducated people but it's a simple cold hard truth that if you're not educated then how tf are you eligible to lead a country.

There is a term called technocratic democracy. Some of you might have heard about it i am not claiming its my idea I just want to explain it and spread awareness about it cause I feel like the citizens of india and USA alike have suffered enough.

A technocratic government is where it is mandatory to have some sort of degree and a professional related to the role you want to apply to. For example a health minister will have a background in medicine and doctorate. A person wanting to be a prime minister or president should have Basics in economics, political science,history and sociology. Just to give an example btw I am not entirely sure about the degrees.

Now there are a lot of loopholes in technocratic democracy as well. First of all who would choose the ministers, how would they differentiate between wether to choose a renowned surgeon or a renowned consultant?? These are just the few loopholes just to name a few.

To solve all these loopholes we can merge both a technocratic government and a democratic government because all the issues that a democratic government had the technocratic government solves and vice versa so if we're to propose a theory where we could balance both these forms of government out with having secured reserved seats for technocrats. This could also reduce corruption since technocrats would not necessarily encourage the "extra" income however there is also a possibility they could. However at the end of the day many public issues can be solved more effectively instead of indias economy dropping it could increase drastically if some one from a top finance company was the finance minister. Of course voting would still be there but citizens can vote for which technocrat they think is eligible rather than having the government choose of them.

hii i chose humanities because i want to do law, i am in grade 11 and honestly i want to score like 100/100 in humanities and it would be super helpful if you all can help cause i have socio exam on monday and i am literally soo cooked. i dont know how to study socio and psych at all ive tried ytb videos mostly magnet brains and simran sahni but its soo boring i wanted to pull my hair out i tried using ai but then they dont provide much indepth of it they just give me a surface level summary which imo doesnt help at all and i only have like friday, saturday and sunday to study for socio and we have the first 2 chapters in our syllabus and the chapters are sooooo long i dont know how to cover them

Recently, my senior told me that i apparently do not have the "mental structure" a lawyer needs like how an engineer has a "technical mind" basically a raw skill. and i am planning to give clat. i asked him why he thought so and he said that whenever he told me about a law or somethng i wouldnt exactly understand it but honestly i think i acc do get the gist of it most of the times and fyi he is a TERRIBLE explainer, he btw got into NLIU as an NRI and got 1k rank. honestly if i dig deeper or read more about something i get and understand the concept quite easily but then i am not sure now cause i keep wondering if i am going to crack clat and get an amazing NLU like NLSIU or NALSAR or at the very least GNLU. i am btw an 11th grader who just started learning about clat like 2 weeks ago although i have known about it since december 2025 but then i had boards and pre boards

hii, i am in 11th grade humanities stream and i really need help cause i am completely lost, i am an NRI student and there are barely any coaching centers in dubai, so i thought about trying online ones and i felt that top rankers was actually great the fees is expensive but isnt it worth it in the long term run?? but then i started researching more and some people are saying that clat can easily be done without coaching while some are saying LPT law prep tutorial is better. Honestly, I don't mind studying without coaching, but I don't know how to start and how to build up from there, and obviously i have to rely on online resources a lot because I don't get the Hindustan Times or wtev newspaper here. i have no idea how to create a study plan or anything i know the basic structure of CLAT and how it all works but thats about it i also do have like a huge ton of books from a senior who gave CLAT UG 2026 but he got around 1k so i am not entirely sure what to do it would be great if anyone could help me out