u/PrudentMission8511

Maybe I’m the crazy one here, but I don’t care if I get ghosted. I’d forget about it in a few days. Maybe I’m just used to being neglected from my history. Maybe the people who hate ghosting are coping with that trauma differently, they hate ghosting because it brings up the old wound of abandonment.

Have you ever been stalked before? Had someone try to hunt down what your face looks like online? Have them threaten to find your address IRL if you block them? Creating multiple alt accounts to try and slide into your DMs? In your DMs telling you about how they dreamt of you last night, and want to meet you IRL next?

Yeah I ghost people when they give me creepy vibes. Early on, right off the bat. Because I’m not going through that again.