First date hookup red flag?
So I’ll admit, I(30F) have a tendency to sleep with guys I go out with in the first date. If I find them cute, we’re vibing, then it’s like why not right? During/after the date they will tend to say “we should keep seeing each other” and either I’ll get their number or I’ll give them mine and then I’ll never see or hear from them again. Why? Cause in my head it’s like “I found someone I like hooking up with, we should keep doing this!” But are guys just going thru the motions to get out the door? If so why talk about future plans you have no intention of keeping? Why talk about hooking up again if your just gonna ghost me? It’d be one thing if talk only was about the present and/or they left on a “thank you I had fun tonight” but it’s always the guy saying “we should do this again” or “text me later” with 0 follow thru.