Anyone else deciding NOT to announce your pregnancy on social media at all?
This is my third pregnancy (first was stillborn, second was a miscarriage) and we tried for a year to get pregnant again. I haven’t told anyone but my parents and bfs parents. My thing is, I recently had a falling out with a friend who cut me off and started gossiping about me just for being with my bf of two years. This “friend” went around calling me a bird (brain), male centered, and basically someone who’s just all about my bf. I’m not. I’ve lived independently without a roommate or family nearby for 6 years. I have a great career. I’ve put years of one sided effort into that friendship. It hurts me so deeply to hear those things being said about me and the people who believed him/cut me off for it. Before I even knew it was being said about me I just felt a fierce protective feeling about this pregnancy, as if I had negative eyes watching me and waiting on my downfall.