can I reconnect with my ex?
My ex and I have been broken up for a year now. We ended on terms that are kinda bad but still, I got to move on. I am not hurt when I recall what has happened between us back then, I didn't think about her for 9 months or so and I have been keeping this to myself since I am confused.
We are both girls and we now go to different schools.
We broke up because she didn't communicate well with me back then. She would be overly jealous of an ex partner I got very traumatized by but I used to understand until I didn't because she never stopped using it against me even if we talked about it already.
After our breakup, I got told that she said mean things about me, that I was only a rebound for her situationship but it has always changed. But I never let myself talk to other ppl about what I was feeling about her back then because I really felt nothing.
We have never been in contact in anyway, she does like my tiktok sometimes but that is it. We aren't mutuals and I have noticed that we both are kind of eyeing and making signs to each other that we think of each other like putting stuff in our bios that only the two of us knew.
is it okay to reconnect with her? or I'm deluded and Im thinking of it too much? Did I really move on because I really do feel i did. And what I want is to reconnect with her as new people, not the person she was in the past. I wanna know her again? I am so confused