Male and female issues nowdays
We see a lot of hate between men and women nowadays and it makes me ponder what’s causing it and why no one knows how to strike a balance. It seems like men and women swing to either extremes. One goes for the red pill/alpha male stuff and then the other goes for feminism/leftism. Being a man myself I was always skeptical of these alpha bros/male influencers because of how hypocritical they are. I went from hating feminism to understand what’s causing it. Honestly, it’s a vicious cycle.
Why is this important? Because sadly these Kuffar ideologies are affecting Muslims too and it is causing societal problems. Let’s start with these alpha male ‘bros’ it seems like they want to sleep with multiple women without commitment and then settle for a virgin later. Here’s why it’s so contradictory, because if these type of PUA men are sleeping with all women, then what happens to the virgin women that they want to settle for later? Now they’re scarce because of their actions yet they fail to realize this fact. Men are quite opportunistic and will sleep any woman that comes their way, unfortunately. A great father or husband can easily weed out these male failures because they are supposed to care deeply about their female relatives. The 2nd problem is Cornography, I personally think it is affecting a huge chunk of men out there by putting them in a loop of easy access to dopamine. Now men are lazy and always agitated, statistics show that women are ahead in education and job placement. Sadly this is creating issues that we cannot deny. Now without a doubt, there’s nothing wrong with educated women besides the environment of free mixing which is wreaking havoc, if free mixing didn’t occur that would solve some problems. They seem to miss the fact that a proper gentleman follows Quran and Sunnah, the lifestyle of the Sahabah. Not some made up ideology in which no one knows if it works, right?
The proper gentlemen doesn’t look at or lust after women giving them free validating attention. He doesn’t trick or dupe women into having relations with the intention of running away when accountability factors in. He doesn’t discuss or share videos/photos of women not knowing one day something similar can happen to his female relatives etc..
Now the women also play a role in this societal problem, no doubt. They flock into the feminism ideology because of bad experiences with men.
Which I can agree with them, there’s a lot of bad men. But is feminism the correct idea? No, it is also Islam that they have to follow. The best of us are the ones who apply Islamic guidelines the most in our lives. Inshallah the women are blessed with great man figures (like father or husband) in their lives. But ofcourse they need to their part in dressing appropriately and start viewing themselves as expensive. They should not give themselves to anyone.
I just don’t understand why we swing to extremes with the intention of wanting all the benefits and very little responsibility?
Being a man myself I know more what changes men should do in their lives to be better men in accordance to our Islamic traditions, it’s just sad that we flock to these Kaffir ideologies when we have all the answers in our book. We’re supposed to be influencing the non-Muslims, not that other way around.
If you made it this far, thank you for reading my rant.