u/PureAd298

This girl that I’ve dated in the past, so yes my ex, and I have started seeing each other again as of this summer. We’ve already seen each other twice this summer and it just feels off.

When we hang I always feel anxious and I don’t flow as good as I do with my friends, but we’re still very intimate. But she blows off/ takes forever to respond to my texts from time to time. But whenever we hang out I’m making her laugh a lot and she tells me she likes me. I kind of feel like an option.

I don’t get the chance to exactly describe my situation but you get the gist. I’m very attracted to this girl and we get along great and she tells me she misses me. Yet from time to time things just don’t feel right.

I need help. Am I just being anxious, or is this pattern something I should be concerned about.

(UPDATE: We talked it out, and she’s just very insecure and we’re going to commit to being better for each other yay)

I don’t need negativity I just want advice. I’d be a lot happier if I knew that I had a 0% chance of having kids. I need some advice because from what I have seen so far, I can’t think of any drawbacks to this. Aren’t vasectomies are reversible within 10 years? And even if there’s a reduced chance of fertility in the future, I would GLADLY take the risk if I get to live my twenties with no fear of having kids.

Plus I’m about to be a sophomore in college? A vasectomy would make my life simply better.

I’m not exactly planning on having kids or going down a traditional suburban route, and I would be open to adopting instead.

Additionally, couldn’t I just save my sperm at a bank and then get a vasectomy?? I’d gladly pay whatever it costs to store the sperm at a bank if I means I have no worries during intimacy.