u/Puzzled-Macaroon-220

Hi im looking to gather my friends this Sunday for a bbq picnic in a park.

It doesnt have to be a park or reservation in Bridgewater, Im looking for a halfway point between my friends in Princeton and Paterson areas, so anywhere in between there, roughly 45 min each way.

I prefer to have a shady spot and at least a little privacy, a wooded area is perfect (similar to Garret Mountain reservation).

The spot does not need to have grills as I have a portable grill, but the park then needs to allow grilling.

Hi im looking to gather my friends this Sunday for a bbq picnic in a park.

It doesnt have to be a park or reservation in Bridgewater, Im looking for a halfway point between my friends in Princeton and Paterson areas, so anywhere in between there, roughly 45 min each way.

I prefer to have a shady spot and at least a little privacy, a wooded area is perfect (similar to Garret Mountain reservation).

The spot does not need to have grills as I have a portable grill, but the park then needs to allow grilling.

Hi im looking to gather some friends this Sunday for a bbq picnic in the park.

It doesnt have to be a park or reservation in Martinsville, Im looking for a halfway point between my friends in Princeton and Paterson areas, so anywhere in between there, roughly 45 min each way.

I prefer to have a shady spot and at least a little privacy, a wooded area is perfect (similar to Garret Mountain reservation).

The spot does not need to have grills as I have a portable grill, but the park then needs to allow grilling.

essentially, im (f) kinda crushing on this girl i met recently but unsure how/when to bring up that im poly and partnered because i dont have much experience w women so cant tell if its friendly.

i went to a happy hour with a work group. i met this girl from work there and we clicked instantly. not long until we mentioned that we were both bi (came up in group convo, others were too, happy pride). anyway we were lowkey in our own convo kinda separate from the rest of the crew for awhile. i think shes cute but i cannot tell if its a friendly or flirty vibe. ALSO the day after this she found me on microsoft teams and invited me to a concert she was going to that day (we were talking abt it at happy hour) bc she had an extra ticket. i sadly declined bc i had plans.

im new to the job and wanted to check out the events there so i messaged if she wanted to join me at the food trucks for lunch. we talked on our own then some other coworkers saw us and joined our table. we went to go get dessert food truck and i was leaning/kinda sitting on the ledge in front and reading the menu, when she came back from throwing out her trash she leaned on the ledge exactly how i was RIGHT NEXT TO ME like shoulder to shoulder, we were touching and omg maybe im so gay but i wanted to play it cool and not move away?

after we got our icecream and we had a second to ourselves i told her that the crew might do happy hour tomorrow, and she said- oh actually do u wanna go to this emo trivia night at a brewery tomorrow? so yeah ofc i was down so she gave me the deets and i gave her my # and so now were going tomorrow. I think it might be a little flirty but it could also be friendly??

oh also now were planning the brewery hangout which is on a main st in her area so she offered that we can walk around and grab food before trivia (i wanted to meet earlier bc i sleep early).

So im thinking of how to bring up that im poly and partnered in case she is kinda into me? i didnt want to mention that im partnered in a coworker group setting bc i dont want to close opportunities but i feel a little guilty keeping it a secret? :( i want to be truthful but im not sure if i would be jumping the gun by telling her im poly and partnered and if she wasnt even into me like that? but i also dont want to lead her on. i wouldnt be upset if she wasnt into me bc im definitely looking for friends in the area as well. i was thinking if there are more flirty signals at the brewery ill confess or maybe ill just spill on my own. unless its a total friendly vibe?!

please lmk what you think and feel free to ask clarifying questions