r/polyadvice

If your partner is sick, they have a kiddo and a spouse, but they ask you to come watch the kiddo because their partner is at work, so you do and grab some things for said sick partner, the spouse gets home from work, and immediately gets ready to leave and go out to a party, how would that make you feel, and/or what should be considered in this situation?

I just need perspective and if there is one thing this sub is good at, it’s perspective. 😅

We're very new to this. As expected the Mrs. had no issues finding another partner. I am genuinely happy for her but cannot help but feel about 100 different emotions at once one being a bit of jealousy.

I truly love seeing her giddy and happy when they talk and whatnot.

We do weekly check in and I feel good after.

Do you have any tips or is this something that get easier over time?