u/Spirited-Warthog8978

I can't say what I want because all these counts will 'worry' about me.

As per header. New in this. I have come from a 25 year monogamous marriage that ended 6 months ago. My new love interest is polyamarous and has a partner. She was reacted badly when I came along but things seem OK now. I don't know if I'm supposed to have any feelings about all this. I feel happy with how things are. Am I supposed to have anything else like jealousy or anything else? Are these things that might come up in future?

I like my new best friend. Like like like. And he says he's queer but I don't know if he like likes me. I think he does a bit but I'm not all that gay friendly really and I worry I say things that are quite un pc that might be unpleasant to him without meaning to. I also have no idea how to do basic girlfriend type stuff like hold hands.