Exploring the possibility of opening our relationship
Husband (25M) and I (20F) have been discussing opening the relationship and bringing in a woman.
We both are on board and have had a handful of talks and I want to have more but don’t know where to start.
We have talked about why or what we strive to get from this dynamic. I want to go into this making sure we are respecting each other and communication is open and safe (and not judged). We don’t want to jump into this and take our time when we start looking for a third and make sure the vibes are right if that makes sense.
Seeking wise on my end I want to explore my sexuality at my pace and realistically attracted to romantically and I want to build a friendship or more with her at the beginning. Husband is wanting her more on the sexual end and open to romance (he has expressed he would love the idea of me cucking/directing them when/if I’m comfortable which I have expressed interest in exploring)
We have had a couple “what if” conversations but both of us really have no clue what would happen and feel like this is a go in blind and discuss as it happens- type of situation. I want to have more what if’s but no clue what could happen.
What advice, questions, ideas, suggestions, anything lol do you have? I want to make sure we are going into this right and healthy not just jump in and not have the necessary conversations we may be missing (I say I because husband is going into these types of relationships completely blind and I have some knowledge of different types of relationship dynamics)