Ok. I’m 43, I’m working with my doctor on my perimenopause symptoms. But I always see HRT as a skin care help. So in that sense what, how, when. What do we ask for! When? How? This chapter was left out of my how to women book. Can some please help because I don’t have a mom to fill in the blanks.
A year ago my mom reached out. She emailed asking for confirmation of her deposits in my kids 529. I don’t respond because, well life is busy. Two weeks later she emailed again that she couldn’t understand why I didn’t respond and she hoped I was doing what was right for me etc. I was feeling feisty when I got the email and responded confirming her questions and said that I wasn’t comfortable opening the door to her. That going no contact is not a natural thing for a child to do and I’ve worked a lot in therapy. That it boils down to I don’t believe she is capable of taking any accountability and I do not trust her. This was her reponse.
appreciate the reply and all your words below.
It is a big knot and I also do not know how to untangle it.
There are two sides to everything and if you care to open the door and try to work through this, feel free to invite me to one of your counseling sessions, or to initiate contact in some other way. Or even have your counselor speak with me 1:1 to expand their perspective so they can help.