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Наверное, я совсем одичала, но ловлю себя на мысли, что уже давно с бОльшим удовольствием провожу время наедине с собой, чем в компании. У меня есть маленький круг друзей, я их люблю и ценю, но не стремлюсь проводить с ними очень много времени. Хотя если они исчезнут из моей жизни, мне будет грустно. Что касается отношений - вообще не представляю, как находить на них ресурсы, я буквально работаю целыми днями, выходные существуют для своих дел, работы по дому, спорта и ухода за собой. Я как чел из опроса, который предпочитает сексу хорошо выспаться. Я лучше посмотрю хороший фильм, чем с кем-то куда-то пойду (это еще и очень дорого - каждый мой поход с друзьями влетает в копеечку). Замуж и детей не хочу - это такая обуза, зачем? Больше ведь не сможешь чиллить. Что касается того, что обо мне никто не позаботится, если заболею, в старости никто воды не подаст, я умру и мой труп, обглоданный кошками, обнаружат через год, и все такое…Ну не знаю, предпочитаю не думать об этом и надеяться, что у меня будут деньги на дом престарелых. Что думаете? Здесь есть люди с такими же взглядами?

I didn’t mention Seungri or Taeil because their cases are already quite well known. Besides, Seungri still has fans and even goes on overseas tours, lol. There are others who came to mind.

- Himchan (B.A.P.) — he was a popular ulzzang, a B.A.P.’s visual, and a talented multi-instrumentalist. But the guy made terrible life choices: he was convicted in three sexual-assault cases, drove under the influence, and ended up listed on an app for convicted sex offenders. I’m a BABY, and Himchan used to be one of my biases. That’s why I’m mostly into GG now.

- Areum (T-ara) — after leaving T-ara, she was suspected of struggling with her mental health because of the disturbing posts she made for some time. In 2025, she was sentenced to eight months in prison, suspended for two years, for abusing and defaming her children. Her mother also received a suspended prison sentence. Areum also faced accusations and subsequent guilty verdicts for borrowing tens of millions of won from fans and acquaintances under false pretenses, a situation partly connected to controversies surrounding her former boyfriend. She was really cute during her T-Ara days, seems like mental disorder destroyed her personality, very sad.

- Park Bom (2NE1) — her mental health was destroyed by the unfair scandal, YG’s humiliating treatment, and the hate she received from stupid netizens. She is the only person on this list who deserves sympathy (maybe G.NA as well).

- Dahee (GLAM) — she was convicted of blackmailing actor Lee Byung-hun and served time in prison. Now she is a BJ on the misogynistic and xenophobic platform AfreecaTV. She was really pretty too and had a strong voice. Need to rewatch “Monstar”.

- Mina (AOA) — possibly false public allegations of bullying against her colleague, as some staff members accused Mina of being rude and neglecting her duties while defending Jimin. She also displayed controversial behaviour afterward. In the photo, she is showing the results of an unsuccessful cosmetic procedure, so here I feel sorry for her. I’m a huge ELVIS, so the whole Mina situation really hurts. For me she was one of the prettiest members.

- Lizzy (After School) — DUI. She said she has severe depression. Don’t know much about her.

- The Toilet Yoochun (JYJ/TVXQ) — several sexual-assault allegations, the toilet scandal, and a drug charge. Really painful for me as a CASSIE and a Rooftop Prince fan.

- Nam Taehyun (WINNER/South Club) — after leaving WINNER, he faced public struggles with mental health and substance abuse. He was later convicted of using methamphetamine, received a suspended sentence, and was also involved in a DUI case.

- G.NA — she was involved in a prostitution case in 2016. Her situation is still unclear to me because I read somewhere that her agency (CUBE?) forced her into it because of her debts.

It was not only a sporting collapse but also a reputational one.

The floral jeans and pink lipstick killed me

These are mine.