General consensus on response time expectations?
I’m curious: what is the general consensus here around appropriate response times on Feeld? Especially curious re: the staying at home core, as this is different from other apps.
I personally don’t think of Feeld as instant messaging. Maybe after a date/meet in terms of local matches, or after moving elsewhere in the case of staying at home/virtual matches, but otherwise I don't really expect to hear from someone throughout the day.
Recently, I have experienced an uptick in connections expressing anger and/or frustration with my not being around to message whilst I'm working, or with only messaging during certain hours (like evenings/nights after work). I even had a match say that they were hoping I could find a day to spend a few hours of my time to text with them.
Most often, this has been with matches from the staying at home core or with those who are "exploring" my city, but I didn't even experience this when nearly everyone was literally staying at home years ago. These people are generally not looking for relationships either, so it's a bit confusing to me.
I'd never had this problem in the past, and my only friends who use Feeld think it's unreasonable to expect responses throughout the day, but I wanted to see if there is any broader consensus is on this.