Relationships in Zambia
I feel like my approach towards relationships is old fashioned, maybe my ex was right when she said sometimes girls just want to sleep with you without strings attached. and every day is proving that point to be true. Personally, I'm demisexual and i love long term relationships but nowadays almost everyone is getting laid. My roommates do so almost every weekend with different girls while I struggle at trying to find "the one" instead of accepting whoever comes and move on.
I am tired of using the methods I've seen from my parents relationship. Some of you may have seen that post that said your parents have been together for 30years and when a random celebrity breaks up they discourage you from marriage?? but maybe it worked out for them because it was that time before all this.
One of my friends was telling that just because you are not hooking up with anyone doesn't mean your future wife isn't doing it. I don't know if I should adapt to this change or continue believing that true still exists?? I need genuine and I brought this here because relationships are dependent on culture too so I need to hear from the Zambian perspective. Any advice?