u/Ready-Day4686

He’s 13 and I’m 16 and I guess he’s really into puberty now cause he’s been doing some awkward things lately.

I walked by his room recently and his door was open and he had no clothes on and he was going to town humping one of his stuffed animals. It was weird and I yelled at him that he was gross and told him to stop but he didn’t and he just said “but it makes my p-nis feel good.”

I told my mom and she said we shouldn’t shame him and it’s good he’s in his room we should just remind him to close the door next time. She said he’s just trying to figure out the new sensations in his body and we should give him space to explore himself and just remind him it’s only in private. I guess she’s right but it’s still awkward.

One of my friends came over recently and he was staring at her so she said “what?” And he said “you’re really pretty” and she said thanks.

Then he says “you made my p-nis get hard.” It was so embarrassing. My friend said “you can’t say stuff like that” and he said “oh sorry.” I apologized for him and she said it’s okay she thinks he just meant it as a compliment he’s just a little awkward but I was mortified. I feel like I can’t have friends over.

What can I do about this? He embarrasses me so much and I don’t want to hear about or see his private parts. I’m not trying to be mean to ND people it’s just not easy for me either.

We are twins and I feel like he doesn’t like me and he’s always annoyed by me and never wants to talk to me or hang out with me.

But then Friday he punched this guy who wouldn’t leave me alone and was kinda bullying me and I asked why he did that and he said they were being mean to me.

He’s getting in some trouble for it cause the school is against violence and my parents aren’t happy cause he’s refusing to apologize for it to make it all go away cause “he deserved it” he says.

I tried to thank him and give him a hug and he was just like “stop you are being weird.”

I can’t figure him out?

So I was cuddling with my boyfriend and I thought I could feel his dih on me which was a little awkward but I know it can get hard from cuddling and stuff so I didn’t think it was that big of a deal.

I asked if that was his thing I could feel and he said yeah. So I started to move a bit to a different position so I wouldn’t feel it against me.

And he was like “you can touch it if you want.” And I was just like “no I’m good.” And he was like “sorry” and I was like “it’s okay.” It was really awkward. We haven’t done anything yet.

Is this normal? I like him I just want to take things slow. Is that okay or will he get bored with me?

So my brother is 3 years younger than me and he sleeps in his boxers and when he gets up in the morning he just comes downstairs like that to get like some water or a snack or something.

And his boxers are sticking out most of the time I guess he’s got morning wood or something. I know it’s normal but like I don’t want to see that you know?

I haven’t said anything cause I don’t want anyone thinking I’m looking at his crotch or anything cause I’m not but it’s just very obvious and I feel it’s awkward?

Or am I overreacting and it’s normal to see stuff as a family and I should just ignore it?