u/Real-Blacksmith1227

I'm still not sure if I want to do it in the first place.

I've been thinking about it for quite a while now.

I want to do it, because my hair is alot. It may look thin on the photo's but it is A LOTTT.

When washing, I need to divide it in 4 sections and like, shampooing my hair costs an hour, and thats without styling it.

I have a really busy school schedule, and tbh, I haven't really been doing that well, and so like taking care of my hair can be too much at some times, and I hate do admit it, it's embaressing, but I have days where I don't even bother to brush my hair.

So that's why I'm thinking about cutting it to a bob.

If I'm gonna cut it, I will donate it, I have before. So that's the pro's of cutting it:

Someone else will (hopefully) be happy with my hair.

Cons is: My hair is like my crown:

People usually tell me my hair is pretty, it's the think I get complimented on the most,

I'm don't life of compliments, but I do gotta say: I like it, and I would miss it. And I'm scared that I might never find the love of my life if I cut my hair which sounds stupid, but I think my hair is the most beautiful feature I have.

Not the curls, they are messy,

nor the colour, because it's just basic and brown,

but the long lenght,

that took me 4 years to grow from a pixie to 73 cm butt lenght.

That 4 year struggle, with tangles and stuff.
And Idk, I'm scared that I'm gonna be ugly and stuff, but I loved having short hair, it was so nice, and light, and easy, and it looked kinda good, but like not hot, more cute, Ig?? Idkkkk

another pro I have with cutting it is that I can dye and straighten as much as I like when my hair is cut. Because it's short so it will grow out fast if I don't like it, or if it's damaged.

Con: if I wait another 4 years my hair will be even longer, and then I'll feel prettier then ever, but if I cut it now, I won't witness that. :(

I don't know what to do, if I should cut it, and most importantly HOW to cut it. so I need the opinion of strangers on the internet, because I can't think for my self Ig.

help

u/Real-Blacksmith1227 — 17 days ago