AITK for getting annoyed by my close relative?
I’m visiting my brother’s place with one of my close relative (maternal sis-in-law) and her son. While leaving the house, my uncle (her fil) gave her 3000/- in cash to spend on whatever. Now during our outing (we were hopping places, mostly temples), she wanted to buy some cookies but said she forgot to carry her wallet in her sling bag and asked me to pay for it saying she will return when we reach home. I said okay, now while I was paying for 4-5 packets of cookies, she said to buy some chocolates for her son too. After this, she again said to give her some change because her son wants something. I gave her some change but was pissed atp because who doesn’t even keep 50-100 change in her bag while travelling.
After this, I decided to just leave my purse in the car. She noticed this and asked my sis-in-law (she is 3 months pregnant, was not carrying any bag, only her phone) to pay for something via UPI. Everything done. Now, after we came back home, she started acting weird and even after a whole day passed, didn’t once mention about returning the money or even thank me (I won’t even take it from her considering it as a gift but at least I expected her to ask me once or at least thank me. Also I paid for her and her son’s tickets as well (my uncle gave her the money and asked her to give me the ticket’s amount but she never gave me). I’m really pissed off with her behaviour and have decided to never travel anywhere with her again. AITK for thinking like this considering she is my guest?
UPDATE- I got the money back (only of the cookies though, not the ticket prices). I’m happy though 🙃