u/Relative_Junket8420

I like dress #1 best, but if it's too white I would go with dress #2. I did try on this dress with the bride herself and she liked it and didn't think it was too white, but wonderful if other guests will judge me.

The dress code is semi-formal or cocktail attire. It's a Chinese wedding with a tea ceremony and then a banquet dinner reception. There are no wedding colors since there is no wedding party or bridesmaids. I just can't wear black, red, or white.

Edited to add that the wedding FAQ says "or cocktail attire"