u/RemarkableServe504

Hello. I am a 35 (F) and cannot tell if what I feel for men and women is sexual attraction or not. I end up on these latebloomerlesbian subreddits and question everything.

I have been with mostly men all my life. Been turned on by making out with them, sex is enjoyable, and have been in love with the men I have dated. I have also been in love with a woman and been turned on by her as well. With women it is more visual and with men it takes more than just seeing them.

I always figured if I went on a date with a man, was bored and wasn't turned on when we were making out I thought I wasn't sexually attracted to them. But apparently lesbians are saying that isn't sexual attraction and anyone can turn you on by sensation.