u/Replacementusernamee

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Hello Generals! Pwede raba mag share dinhi?

Sooo…

I've been seeing this guy for couple of months na pud, and from the start pa lang, clear naman mi na this is just for fun. No commitment and nothing serious. Okay ra man ko ato.

Pero lately murag naa koy feeling nga I'm not the only girl he's talking to or seeing. Wala koy proof or anything, just a gut feeling ra na nagapa overthink naku.

Then narealize naku nga dili diay ko comfortable if he's seeing multiple girls at the same time baskin given na wala sila ga sex. I know wala man miy exclusivity or commitment sa matag usa, so I don't feel like I have the right na masuko o mudemand niya. But at the same time, I know that's a boundary for me.

Maong gusto nako mabal’an if he's talking to or seeing someone else. Kay if he is, I'd rather just end whatever naa ming duha.

And if by any chance mabasa nimo ni. please lang, tell me na lang directly if naa kay lain gina see or katalking stage. Okay ra kaayo nako if we stop this. I'd rather hear the truth than keep overthinking.

Question naku:
Unsa may best way to ask him?

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Respect post lang unta and no judgment, please.
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F24 here. Fyi dili naku palamunin guys ha hahaha

Edit:
Dili ra gud ta mangasuko guys. I’m fully aware na what we both have kay nothing serious. Ug sa tinuod ra wala ko naga selos and kabalo ko sa akong gisud’lan nga setup. Wala pud koy feelings niya sa true lang na istorya. Mao ganeng naREALIZE naku diba? Maong plan na naku iend if ever na naa syay ginakita na iba. Best way to ask him ra man unta to na dili musound nga demanding or feeling uyab kay kabalo ko na dili mi in a relationship ug walay kami.

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