u/ResearcherFormal2055

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Why do females hardly ever seem to want to sort things out with me?

Almost every woman or girl I have known has seemed inclined to become keen on not sorting out mistakes she makes about me, my personality, my intentions, or how I experience her. It'difficult to say it, but this (to some extent fatally, I feel) includes my own mother. Moreover, it includes virtually everyone I've dated, as well as, very much, a childhood peer, who, when we were 4 or 5 was rhe first girl (that I remember) to declare love for me.

I don't get if I'm doing something wrong, or if it, somehow, is a common female trait - that also victimizes others. That is, I can't find anything that I do that is quite wrong enough for them all to avoid resolvements with me. But the very few exceptions that I've been acquainted to have somehow been inclined to neglect the possibility of me really having such a problem with other females. Usually, that is, everybody (males too) become evasive of the issue.

Can anyone figure out anything about why this happens?

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u/ResearcherFormal2055 — 9 days ago