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I’m mostly asking in regard to my RC score. I’m going to try and get double-time accommodations but I want to feel confident without it.

I did an untimed raw diagnostic got a 162; however, it took me 2x the standard time. It took me 90 minutes to get -4 on RC.

People say not worry about time on diagnostics but I’ve heard mixed reviews on the reading.

People who read slowly/overthinkers/neurodivergent folks, what did you do to improve?

My girlfriend (22f) and I (22m) have been together over 2 years. We’re really happy together, when we are together. We’ve had to be long distance for the last year and will have to next year, so it’s been really rough.

But when we were long distance, the sex has gotten… better. For both of us. I think it’s because there is so much passion involved because we miss each other.

We’ve tried new positions, too. My favorite being when she rides me while I’m sitting on a couch. She usually takes on the liberty of giving me a sexy lap dance before and while she puts it in. It kinda drives me crazy and I think this is where I realized I like when she rides me.

But, in the past, she has enjoyed “not doing the work” during sex. Part of me wondered how much that had to do with her confidence and how much of that was a preference.

In the past several months, whenever we’re at my place, I ask her to ride me on the couch. She says because she knows her much I like it, she likes to do it now.

She was never confident/knew how to do this before we started using the couch.

Anyways, now to the point:

I’m worried we’ll have to start over all of our progress because neither of us has a couch anymore:/

So when switching to a bed, how do I, in the same way I did with the couch, teach her while making her think she is teaching herself? Oftentimes, when I try to kindly construct her in the bedroom, she is happy to meet my requests but sometimes I feel like they make her feel that she isn’t “doing it right.”