u/RestSubstantial1744

Do they lose respect for accommodating partners?

If a partner chases after them, is obsessed with them, and takes them back without consequences, are they more likely to lose respect and leave again? We are talking about people with a fearful-avoidant attachment style—who therefore have an anxious side and a negative self-view—so do they not feel reassured by this, or would they feel guilty about leaving again?

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u/RestSubstantial1744 — 9 days ago

Avoidants and dating apps

Share you’re experiences. Did they continued to use apps during relationship or immediately after? Why they do this? The will ever understand how much toxic is their way to use dating apps or no?

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u/RestSubstantial1744 — 3 months ago

Do avoidants feel annoyed/disgusted by us?

Is it possible that their defense mechanisms lead them to feel irritated by us? If the deactivation begins because they like the person so much and because the intimacy grows, how is it possible that they end up feeling disgusted by the person? Is it a temporary feeling for them or a permanent one after a discard?

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u/RestSubstantial1744 — 4 months ago