u/RewardImpressive4437

I (27M) am a good looking, decently fit man with a good job and interesting hobbies. I write short stories, I dress well, and I think I am a smart guy.

Despite all this I have never had a gf. I go on dates but they never go anywhere. I look around online and all I ever see is women talking about how they're looking for "the right vibe" from men. Is that all that matters to women is what kind of emotional stimulation I give them? It feels like nothing else about me matters to them.

I am looking for genuine advice and not emotional support for this question.