u/Riverina22

I don’t know how to put this so…my wife is in a pissing match with Loki. She doesn’t believe he’s real and he’s all in my head. She bought candles today and Loki wanted one (well all of the candles but who am I to deny him?) so I put it on his altar and she got pissy and said it was for the bathroom so she took it off his altar and when she set it in the bathroom she burned her hand with hot wax. 😬😬😬 Now Loki has demanded ALL of his candles be lit. He is not happy. 😅

As an apology offering I hid her phone in a kitchen drawer we never use and gave him Pepsi and chips.

Edit to add: it was NEVER made clear it was HER candle for the bathroom BEFORE putting it on the altar.

Order of events:

*Candle on the counter*

1. Loki wanted the candle.
2. I put it on the altar because usually it is fine

when I do that.
3.

1. She got mad about the candle and took it off th

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1. altar

Update: I tried to talk to her about respecting Loki’s space and she shut it down really hard and said “I don’t care! The stuff is mine! Loki doesn’t exsist!” So I backed off cuz I didn’t want to fight with her.

Me: “Oh my god!”

Loki: “Yes?”

Me: “Are you going to do that every time?”

Loki: “Yes.” 😎

Wbu?

Father’s Day is complicated for me and I was slipping into guilt about being a bad kid and Loki pointed out that my parents were traffickers. So any time I annoyed them, made them feel something negative, or disrupted their plans/life I was doing that to TRAFFICKERS and ABUSERS. And it made me a little giddy inside to think about. 🥹

To put it mildly: today is a major trauma anniversary. Loki has been helping me so much and I am insanely proud of myself. I have had such a hard time showering lately and I managed to do that today. And then I went on a walk with my wife, we got ice cream and went to the store.

Loki has been with me through it all and he was very clear about something today: NO OFFERINGS! Focus on YOU! He’s been in my head all day being my cheerleader.

Another thing he has been reminding me of is this is NORMAL for what I’ve been through. This is part of the process and it’s all okay and all things considered I’m doing pretty well.

Sometimes I feel crazy for being obsessive about Loki but he stuck with me through my trauma, is taking an active role in helping me to manage my mental health, is adamant that I put myself first on days like this. He has been helping me work through shame around rest (iykyk).

But yeah…this is why I am 13000% team Loki. 💚🐍🔥

Loki is helping me with some very unhealthy food issues and I won’t go into that too much but basically he said no more food offerings until we get the ED under control.

I still share a shot glass worth of my morning coffee with him and I will give him drinks but for now other than drinks food offerings are off the table.

Any ideas on other non food offerings I can give him? We have limited space in our apartment so more trinkets might not be the best idea at this moment. 😅 I have several candles for him. Do those count?

TIA!

Trigger Warning: human trafficking

I don’t know where to start with this one. I was trafficked as a child through the adoption system. I was raised in plain sight “in captivity” (my therapists words). Loki was there with me through all of it and I had no idea at the time.

I’ve been dealing with a lot of survivors guilt and tonight I was talking with Loki and I asked him what about the other kids still there. He told me he’s there for those kids too and the kids in those detention camps. Idk it got me really misty eyed at how much he loves and cares for abused kids.

Edit to add: this was supposed to be longer but my brain kind of glitched. Anyways Hail Loki!

Going to grab a mint tin today because I know that’s a good starting point. Any other ideas or advice on how to make a travel or pocket alter for Loki? Something small that can be set up in hotel rooms and carried around in a purse?

Thank you!

That’s it. He pestered me for Pepsi. Combo of using his candle to get my attention and then giving me internal nudges and I did some divination and I think at some point he screamed “PEPSI!” In my head so he got his Pepsi. 🤣🤣🤣

Like sheesh! Diva! Can we also take him to talk about what a fucking diva icon he is. As annoying as some of his shenanigans can be I really highly respect it because that is fucking ✨QUEEN ENERGY✨right there! A person who knows what she wants and gets it (sometimes in the most annoying waste possible, but I respect the vibes)! Also even when she’s being annoying it weirdly makes me like her more…idk. I find it cute and endearing. Maybe I’m a little nuts. 🤣

What have your Loki diva moments been?

Every morning when I have coffee I share it with Loki. I know he likes coffee so I share when I have it. And when I don't have it I give him Pepsi or Fireball whiskey. I think it makes him happy.

Does anyone else have any ideas of small things I could to just because to make him happy? It doesn't have to be drinks but I'm looking for more ideas. He is genuinely so sweet. :-)