u/RollingDany

Originally posted most of this as a comment but wanted to expand a little

When incels (and players, and any ‘pilled’ communities) talk about ‘women’ they basically by definition mean ‘available women’. There are plenty of women who don’t have insane standards, or cheat as soon as something better comes along, or post shitty content about men - but they’re all in happy functional relationships with partners they met years ago so aren’t available to either players or incels so they never experience interaction with them.

All their interactions with women are with this group, and I hate to say it but ‘available women’ are very often single or in uncommitted relationships for exactly the reasons that come up in posts here - unrealistic standards, cheating, psychological issues, etc. I did a bit of time on ‘the apps’ before I met my wife (not on an app), and from friends who are still dating it just seems to get worse and worse. I have single friends both M and F - my wife and I can’t work out the guys aren’t successful but we could tell you exactly why each of our female friends are single…

The reality is that these are the only women available to a single man though, so it makes sense that all the content in here is tailored that way - the people in here are trying to find ways to exist within that reality.

Obviously there are always exceptions (diagram of red/blue circles etc), and women aren’t a monolith - the issue is that for a lot of single men they’re only not a monolith because they each treat people badly in different ways.

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Actual ‘perspective’ - there’s a reason why ‘pilled’ communities (both incels and players) talk about women the way they do, and some thoughts on why they aren’t necessarily wrong about their own lived experiences