Looking for a friend with similar world views
Good morning/evening to you…. I have been trying to find a friend on Reddit for the past week but I couldn’t find anyone I related to; so I am made this post to showcase the traits I would like in a friend and what friendship means to me. But first Im not one for making friends off of superficial interests such as working out or consuming media,these things (in my opinion) shouldn’t shape who you are as a person,I’m more so interested in the feeling these hobbies give you,and what makes you like them
Friendship for me is mutual understanding and sharing,wether it’s sharing opinions,experiences,feelings
And I don’t think we humans can be or should be identified with labels,but they do make sorting people easier which the brain likes cause the brain is lazy
Speaking of the brain I believe that we humans are just animals who were doomed with consciousness that made us believe we have souls,instead of just being brains controlled by chemicals and electricity,therefore we were also doomed with egotism,and we made it every other creature’s problem including ourselves.
Traits the I look for(you don’t have to have all of them expect the first one, the first one is necessary) -kindness and respect -the will to understand others and see things in a different light -progressive thinking -humor -anti-AI generative content -trying to find joy in everyday simple moments -antinatalism -non religious -appreciation for art -appreciation for nature
would love to have a a friend who observes and analyzes the everyday life and who recognizes the self-destructive behaviors of society so we can laugh at them (or cry) together.
I knew I previously mentioned how I don’t believe in making friends off of hobbies and interests only,but I will mention them in case you want to know so you could get a better idea about me
-Drawing/painting -animation(interested in trying out claymation/stopmotion) -Sculpting -Playing oud (still a beginner) -Ballet (also a beginner) -baking and cooking -DIY and crafts in general
Current interests: -Wether or not anyone can be rehabilitated,and if we should allow second chances. -Making ingredients from scratch (like butter) -Watching tv shows from the 70s-80s (I forgot to mention how I’m a fan of vintage fashion/houses/music/letters/movies/mustaches/ANYTHING!) -learning and practicing chess -organic/crunchy lifestyle -the chemistry of the human brain -the late nineteenth century -Trying out coffee at different cafes -How unromantic society has became -detoxing the mind from social media
I’m 19 f btw and I dream of owning a cabin in a green countryside,where I can plant my own food and enjoy a quite peaceful life away from the pollution of cities.
Sorry if this post is messy or unclear